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Hey y'all! Welcome to 'The Candi Chronicles' - a place where I'll be dishing out all kinds of realness, inspiration, and personal experiences. Whether we're talking relationships, industry tips, or just life in general, you can expect a good dose of humor, heart, and some pretty awesome stories. So, if you're part of the Candi Crew or just stopping by, make yourself at home and join me on this crazy journey. We're gonna have some fun, get real, and learn a whole lot together. Let's do this!
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Closure Is a Myth—You Don’t Need It to Move On
We tell ourselves we need closure, but what we’re really seeking is a way to make the pain disappear.
Juli "Candi" Long
5 hours ago4 min read
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When Love Isn’t Enough: What Toya & Reginé Taught Me About Boundaries, Entitlement, and Family
A deep dive into what Toya & Reginé's family journey taught me about love, boundaries, and the courage to say no—even to family.
Juli "Candi" Long
2 days ago4 min read
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90s R&B: When Music Had Soul, Vocals, and Real Emotion
When I hear 90s R&B, the first thing that comes to mind is comfort, nostalgia, and pure magic
Juli "Candi" Long
Mar 244 min read
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A little Church for the Churchy Folks
New Comedy Sitcom on BET+ Now Streaming I love when a show catches me off guard in the best way possible. With me finally adding BET+ to...
Juli "Candi" Long
Feb 283 min read
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Two Hot Chicks Take Over Real Talk with Reese
What happens when Two Hot Chicks pull up to Real Talk with Reese in Cleveland, Ohio? A whole lot of realness, resilience, and raw conversati
Juli "Candi" Long
Feb 243 min read
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Why The Cosby Show Still Holds Value: A Love Letter to My Favorite Show
There are certain shows that don’t just entertain us—they raise us. They shape the way we see the world, the way we love, the way we dream.
Juli "Candi" Long
Feb 245 min read
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Intentional Galentine’s Day Ideas: More Than Just a Girls' Night
Setting the Atmosphere for Sisterhood & Celebration Y’all already know—I am the hostess with the mostest. Flair? Got it. Fabulousness?...
Juli "Candi" Long
Feb 128 min read
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Choosing to Live Joyfully: Life Be Lifin’, But I’m Still Here!
A Moment of Reflection I was scrolling through my phone the other day, looking at videos and pictures from the past year, and something...
Juli "Candi" Long
Jan 294 min read
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Reality Isn’t Reality: Toxic Reality TV vs. Real Sisterhood
I was about to start watching a new reality show on Netflix called Wags to Riches—a series about the wives and girlfriends of athletes.
Juli "Candi" Long
Jan 284 min read
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16 Years of Motherhood: Lessons I’ve Learned from Being London’s Mom
Celebrating 16 Years of Love, Growth, and Lessons
Juli "Candi" Long
Jan 274 min read
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Unplug & Reconnect: Creating Healthier Habits in 2025
It’s 2025, and let’s be real—we are drowning in information. Social media has made it easier than ever to stay connected, but sometimes? It’
Juli "Candi" Long
Jan 233 min read
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Living Single: A 90s Classic That Aged Like Fine Wine
The impact of 'Living Single' on Black television. The sitcom reflects cultural themes and empowerment and is still relevant in 2025.
Juli "Candi" Long
Jan 206 min read
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Are We Still Honoring the Dream?
Every now and then, I sit and wonder if my ancestors are proud of me. Am I doing enough? Have I honored their sacrifices? Their dreams?...
Juli "Candi" Long
Jan 203 min read
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The Magic and Legacy of Luther Vandross: A Documentary Reflection
A Voice That Defined Love When CNN announced they were airing a documentary on the Luther Vandross, I knew I had to watch. I’ve been a...
Juli "Candi" Long
Jan 174 min read
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The Men of Moesha: My Unpopular Opinions on Moesha’s Love Life
While a lot of girls were swooning over Quinton’s bad boy energy, I thought he was corny and rude
Juli "Candi" Long
Jan 134 min read
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To the Baby I Never Got to Hold
Though I never held you in my arms, I carry you in my heart always My sweet angel, Today marks seven years since I lost you. Seven...
Juli "Candi" Long
Jan 133 min read
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MsiCandi’s Grown & Sexy Snow Day Playlist
So, we just came off a major winter storm here in Ohio, and my city was lucky (or unlucky, depending on how you look at it!) to receive...
Juli "Candi" Long
Jan 94 min read
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Behind the Vibes: An All-Access Experience at Bobby Brown’s Ladies Night Concert in Pittsburgh
R&B Ladies Night Out Experience with Ginuwine, Jagged Edge, & Bobby Brown When my good friend Tobias hit me up about a last-minute trip...
Juli "Candi" Long
Dec 30, 20249 min read
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Ms. Pat Show: A Raw and Real Perspective on Family and Life
When I started watching The Ms. Pat Show, I’ll admit—I had to get out of my head about what I expected a sitcom to be. I grew up with...
Juli "Candi" Long
Dec 23, 20243 min read
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CookieMas 2024: A Celebration of Life, Love, and Cookies
CookieMas didn’t start as a big event—it began six years ago as a small gathering, just after my son Cairo was born. Back then, it was...
Juli "Candi" Long
Dec 23, 20244 min read
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